One way to spice up your sex life is to use sex toys, either alone or together with your partner. And a good way to get in the mood for this is to pick these toys together. Sometimes, people are a little intimidated by sex toys: they think that when someone has a lot of sex toys, they are no longer needed themselves. This is bullshit; we all love variety in our lives and our sex lives, and sex toys can help with that.
Don’t worry: a good lover can never go overboard, no matter how good a sex toy is! When thinking about sex toys, most people think of vibrators, but vibrators are only a small part of the sex toys available.
Check the Internet to see what’s available, you’ll be amazed! This is the best way to do it:
1.The most personal way to order a sex toy is by looking at the online catalog or web shop, of a large sex shop. Here you can find all the information you need. If the shop is located in another country then yours, make sure they ship to your country.
2.You should choose a large sex shop because they offer a large selection of sex toys. Also, these larger sex shops often have clear descriptions, with pictures, of what they offer.
3.Talk about what you know and like, what you have tried or would like to try. Vibrators, dildos, cock-rings? Thai beads, handcuffs, anal plugs? Just talking about it will ensure you get to know each other better, get to know your different tastes.
4.Browse catalogs; some things you may not have seen before. Which toys catch your eye; excites you and your partner? Which toys would you like to try on your own, and which would you like to try together?
5.When you find something you both like, buy it. When it arrives, only unpack it when you both have time to explore it together, without rushing. Play with it and enjoy it.
6.Once you get used to buying sex toys to play with, buy some toys that you want to use for yourself. But you can make this extra interesting, by showing your partner how you use this sex toy …
Build a collection of sex toys together, sexy and fun; it will spice up your sex life. And when you get used to buying them together and talking about them, you’ll also know better which one to buy if you’ve ever been looking for a gift for your partner.